This is my transcription of Santa Visits the Bartells as told by Wil to me on our drive home from work…
And Santa comes down the Chimney and William asks, “who’s that there?” and Santa says, “it’s just me.”
“Oh Santa! Its just you. You bring presents?”
“Yes!” Santa says. And Santa gives William a present and he rips it open and its a boat. Santa gives a present to William and says, “here this is for Midnight.”
But Midnight can’t talk, she says “meow”. So William takes Midnight’s present and rips it open and its cat food. And he gives the food to Midnight and she says, “meow”, thank you, because she can’t talk because she’s a cat.
Then William rings the bells to wake mama and dada. And mama and dada say, “what’s that noise?!?!? Oh, it’s just William.” And they come to the livingroom and they see Santa.
William takes dada’s present and he rips it open and its a plane. “Here you go dada,” says William. And then he takes mama’s present and he rips it open and its a truck, “here you go mama.”
Then Santa goes up the Chimney and he asks William, “you want to come to the North Pole with me?”
“Yes, thank you!” Says William and he goes up the Chimney with Santa and he goes to the North Pole.
I’m guessing there’s a sequel since I was never told the second half of the story about what happens when William goes to the North Pole and his return.
Merry Christmas everyone! It’s been a fabulous year!
It was right around 4 am when I woke up startled from the haze of the bad dream. From my open window, I smelled bagels cooking from the bakery distributor a couple of blocks down. I made out the smell of cinnamon raisin braided in with the onion and garlic that overpowered all the smells. It was early September. The afternoon before it had been pouring rain. On the ride home from Manhattan on the Express bus into the Bronx I wondered if we were even going to make it home. Rivers had formed on the Bruckner Expressway making our bus driver weave and swerve to get around it and get us home. I got home an hour later than usual, but by then the rain had tapered off.
I did my usual routine of Chinese take out from the restaurant across from the bus stop and walked the two long blocks home to my apartment. I watched the evening news. Primaries were tomorrow, some schools had their first day of school and the weather was supposed to be much better – cooler and sunny.
Now here at 4 am with a nice cool breeze mixed in with the smell of bagels. I tried to remember why I woke up so startled.
I dreamt I was back in PR in our old house on the family compound. But the house was huge this time, a few stories tall. We were on one of the other floors, second floor maybe, and were told we had to leave. The house was on fire and the floor was starting to crack. I’ve always had vivid, odd and disturbing dreams, this was no different. Other than the house burning everything else in the dream seemed so perfect. The air was warm, the rooms in the house were bright from the sunlight entering through the large windows. The light gave everything a yellow tinge. It was a surprise when someone said there was a fire. The only indication of trouble was the cracking sound from the floor.
I tried going back to sleep but it took almost 2 hours. My alarm went off 20 minutes later. I hit the snooze button a few times up until 7:20. Finally had to drag my butt out of bed and get to work. It was cool out but not chilly. I had the TV on and Al Roker said it was going to be a beautiful day. I put on my sandals and wore a knit light purple top. Quite the combo. Eh, I wasn’t trying to impress anyone.
I decided to take the Subway in. The Express Bus at this hour was going to take longer in peak rush hour traffic. At least the train would be easier. I always got a seat since I lived at the second to last stop and could take it all the way to work. I stood by the back part of the platform and looked over the railing to the street below. The light this time of year always bought me back to childhood and the first few days of school. I remember the smell of the new school supplies — new book bags and pencil cases have a distinct rubbery smell. I remembered walking to school eager for a new beginning. The yellow light of that morning vaguely reminded me of my dream from the night before. It glowed against the buildings and the reflected off of windows, bright but warm.
My train pulled in and I sat towards the back of the car. We made our way through the North East Bronx. We paused in Parkchester, as usual, it was the switch over for those that wanted to take the local train through the South Bronx. We were going express into Manhattan from here. There was an announcement on the PA, something about an incident in lower Manhattan and our train’s final stop being somewhere before Wall Street. It didn’t matter to me. My stop was in mid-town. We finally got moving again. We pulled up and over the curve before going underground for the duration of the ride.
It was such a perfectly blue and cloudless sky.
This thought has been on my mind lately.
It can be taken in regards to almost anything: religion, faith, politics, child-rearing, social interactions. But, it doesn’t mean to make up your choices and decisions just based on what you think you know. We need to be open to what we don’t know and the possibility of facts going against our reality, beliefs and truths.
When I use words like Truth and Belief they’re not the same concept as we’re taught growing up. How can two people believe two opposing things and both things be true? How can we believe two different things and both of us be right? I’m not saying that its always the case that everyone is right and could never be wrong – relativism. Truths and beliefs do need to be balanced out with a sense of morality, ethics and compassion that transcends through all societies. But, at a different level, we can both have a different approach for the same end result. There is not just “one way”.
I can’t accept that someone will believe what someone tells them at face value without having gone outside of their comfort zone to see if there are other opinions and facts. Just because someone you respect says something, doesn’t make what they say true, and it doesn’t mean that you have to take it as truth and convert it into your own beliefs. You can still respect someone and look up to someone, even if you don’t agree with 100% of what they say. Isn’t this what friendship and marriage is about? Same holds true for people with positions of authority in our lives. We can respect, but not follow blindly.
The strongest ideas and beliefs are those that came about after we were nudged enough to make us uncomfortable. We learn some information that pushes against what we think is true. We finally realize that what we believe can stand the test or needs to be re-evaluated. The strongest convictions come from not taking just one point of view, but looking through the different ideas and deciding for ourselves what is true for us- which may not be the truth for someone else.